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Spouses Should Not Strive For Equality

Don’t split tasks evenly, explains Noah Berlatsky, writing in Scientology puff-magazine the Atlantic:

 Housework isn’t a debt wives owe to husbands, nor one husbands owe to wives. It’s not a gift you give to make a slave. Rather, it’s the quotidian stuff of which the relationship is made. We’re married, so we help each other. And the helping isn’t to protect the marriage, or to keep the people in the marriage happy. The helping is the marriage itself.

Yeah, no kidding.

What if we tried to split all the tasks up equally?  She’ll breastfeed half the time, and …… what? the other half of the time.  I’ll hold the steering wheel, you shift the gears.  You go to your office Monday, Wednesday and come to mine Tuesday, Thursday…

Or maybe: sure, go to medical school — but make sure you’re home on time every day to take care of your twelve hours of the parenting.

Shyeah, right.

C++ for Bozos: Problems with const

Here’s how to handle problems with the const qualifier: remove it!

For example, if someone has declared a function to return a const object, and you want to use and modify that return value, just change the declared return value.

Example:

void myfunc( std::string s );

const std::string WToA( const std::wstring& w );

myfunc( WToA( w ) ); // will error unless you remove the const!

Pro Tip:

#define const
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Arnold Kling is discovering John Holt

Arnold Kling, quoting John Holt on schooling:

Bryan’s view is benign compared with John Holt.

society demands of schools… that they be a place where… children or young people can be shut up and so got out of everyone else’s way…. They are a kind of day jail for kids. [elided much of this paragraph - Sam]

Apparently Kling was previously familiar with the work of Ivan Illich, who was a friend and colleague of Holt’s.

Since Illich and Holt were both more of the Left than the right (albeit, a liberty-celebrating Left that’s more like left-libertarianism than modern Progressives or even 1980′s liberal Democrats), I am curious to see how this influences Kling’s thinking.

.. is an ex-sysadmin

I am now an ex-sysadmin.

That hit me pretty hard.  I was surprised.

Yesterday I had a final meeting onsite with Client#1′s sysadmin; we talked over all the areas of responsibility, recapped all the services, talked about all the physical and virtual servers, discussed everything from low infrastructure (power, network wiring) to high hopes (finally outsourcing the mail server), and at the end, I said,

“OK – well, I’ll keep the root credentials for now, but I won’t be using them.  At the end of the month I’ll want you to kill all my accounts, but leave the VPN account if I’m still part of the offsite backup plan then.  Let me know when you’ve got that replaced and I’ll blow away my copy of all that data.”

.. and I suddenly felt a physical weight lifting off my shoulders and landing on his shoulders.  I stood a little straighter and said, “OK, it’s all you.”

Then I went home and cried like a baby.

Less Painful Office Ribbons

Microsoft helpfully “upgraded” office in 2007 and destroyed all the personal intellectual capital that people had created by learning the menu system.  I took slight notice of this at the time because, hey, infant twins.

Recently I’ve been dragged kicking and screaming off of Office 2003 and started using Office 2007, so I’ve had to deal with this piece of junk myself.

Eventually I noticed that Excel 97/2000/2003 menu shortcut keys still work through a “magic compatibility mode”.  But for the things that I used to use toolbars, I was screwed.

Right-clicking on a selection brings up a toolbar that contains almost all, but not quite all, of the least useful formatting commands.

Today I was trying to resize some rows and columns and it was so incredibly painful that I actually found a meta-solution: an add-in that lets you search for commands by name.   Found it via Debra Dalgeish’s blog Contextures, which looks to have lots of useful Excel stuff.

I hope someone doesn’t add a command-line interface to Excel next.  I’d have to find something new to whine about.

Remembrance of Futurists Past

I just got around to reading
As We May Think
, Vannevar Bush’s famous 1945 article where he lays out a vision for the Internet, high level programming languages, Wikipedia, CCD-based cameras, and more.

What a contrast to the popular futurist vision of flying cars and humanoid robots…

So: how can you tell which of today’s Futurists are describing future realities, as Bush did, and which are Kurzweil types? And in which camp does Ramez Naam belong?

French Press Tip

I’ve been making French press coffee for at least 20 years.  About every third time, while pressing the coffee, a little bit spills onto the counter.

The other day I tried it differently: I put the French press into the sink and pressed it there.

20 years of pointless, needless counter-wiping could have been averted by using the sink for its intended purpose.

Don’t let this happen to you…

Reimbursement Form

Here’s some more tiny-business advice: you should have a reimbursement form.Denied

It’s not that I’m nostalgic for the “Good Old Days” when I was at UC Berkeley: I’m not suggesting you make yourself sign a loyalty oath.  It turns out that keeping track of expenses is hard; reimbursable expenses especially so; and a form is essentially a love letter from past-self to future-self that makes it slightly easier.

Minimally the form should answer the journalistic questions: Who spent the money?  What was it spent on?  Why is it a reimbursable (business-related) expense?  Where was it spent?  When was it spent?  How was payment made?  Attaching a receipt will help answer the basics: that’ll give you the vendor name, address, payment means, and SKUs for the items you purchased.  What a receipt can’t answer, and what a form makes you confront, is the “WHY”.

Do Your Own Books – Wrap Up

Well maybe just a wrap-up for NOW.  Maybe I’ll bang on this drum more, later.

I don’t know enough about John’s business to argue with him further.  400 journal entries a year sounds like <10 a week to me, which is less than an hour a week.  But if an hour a week is more time than you want to spend on the business at all, because it’s supposed to be passive income… well.  Hard to say.

The underlying principles are:

  • A transaction should be recorded as soon as possible, and ideally by one of the people involved in the transaction
  • The principals/owner/CEO should be aware of the current financial position of the company

When the owner is the only employee, then there’s an obvious candidate for entering the transactions: you!  When the bookkeeping is simple, then there’s no need for intermediate layers of accounting.  The financial position of the company is Cash On Hand + Accounts Receivable – Accounts Payable.

For a lot of people — for me, even, at several points in managing my business — it seemed “easier” to just take a quick look at the bank balance and make a decision from there.  But there’s a big difference between $12,000 in the bank and owing $20,000 in taxes vs. $12,000 in the bank and expecting $2,000 in the coming month.

For a lot of self-employed people, if they’re not doing their own books, nobody is doing the books.  So do your own books.

Reviewers Wanted for Tech Interview Questions

I’m working on a couple of tech interview questions and I’m looking to test them on people — ideally, people who do tech hiring and project management work.  So if you want to read my tech interview questions and give me feedback on whether they’ll help me find the people I’m looking for, please comment or contact me privately.  I’ll email you.

Thanks!